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Divorce Process Lawyers in Westborough
Guiding You Through the Massachusetts Divorce Process in Worcester County
At O’Connor Family Law, our accomplished legal team understands the emotional rollercoaster of divorce based on our own personal experiences as well as our 35 years of combined exclusive family law representation. Those qualifications have given us extensive knowledge of the law and the divorce process. This process requires a navigation that balances your end goals with efficiency in helping you obtain the outcome you need as quickly as possible. We urge you to allow our divorce lawyers to stand by your side as both allies and advocates as you move through the proceedings. We are here to educate and support you in making the best choices toward furthering your goals.
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The Divorce Process in Worcester, Hanover, & Westborough
The service of divorce papers is what officially begins the divorce process. In a contested divorce, the party that initiates the process, called the Plaintiff, has the responsibility to serve the other spouse, called the Defendant. The Defendant then must file an Answer to the divorce within 20 days from receipt of the official complaint documents. Filing this Answer is important for correcting any mistakes within the divorce complaint as well as to reserve your right to seek any alternative outcome through a counterclaim.
Following this, the Plaintiff will generally present his or her side of the case first before the judge. This may or may not be an advantage as the Defendant gets to hear the other side’s argument and can directly respond to it when it is his or her turn before the court. In some cases, it is advantageous to be the Plaintiff to initiate the process when you need financial support to begin if a spouse has refused it.
Deciding when to file can also be influenced by the issue of alimony. If you are close to the five, 10, 15, or 20-year anniversary of your marriage, you may want to file to keep an alimony duration restricted to a lower tier by serving your spouse before the next five-year period passes. If you are the other party, you may want to wait to let the time pass to enable you to collect alimony longer.
A responding Answer to a complaint for divorce is not legally required. However, failing to respond can carry risks. If your case continues and you fail to answer and fail to appear at a court hearing, the judge can move forward without any input from you. This means the judge may basically give your spouse everything he or she requests.
What if You Don’t Know Where Your Spouse Is?
To obtain a divorce, your spouse must be notified through the serving of the divorce complaint. However, if you do not know where your spouse is, ways exist to legally satisfy the notification process. This is done through filing a motion for “alternative service” with the court. The most common method of alternative service is through publication in a newspaper done through a court order. Our firm can assist with this process to allow your divorce process to continue smoothly.
Once your case is filed, it will be docketed and assigned to a judge who will oversee and decide its outcome. Generally, you cannot request a different judge. As each judge may decide matters slightly differently, it is very important to have an attorney who has practiced regularly in front of each local judge. At O’Connor Family Law, our legal team has extensive experience with all the judges sitting at the Worcester County court; we can offer insight into how any one particular judge may rule in your situation. This can be invaluable to the preparation of your case.
When Children Are Involved
The divorce process remains basically the same whether you have children or not. What does change is the fact that you will also need to make decisions regarding their care, custody, and financial support. This often makes the divorce process more complicated, especially when you and your spouse have different ideas about what is best for the children. These decisions have long-range effects. For example, currently divorced parents can be ordered to pay for their children to go to college. This may mean thinking years ahead for financial planning.
Having children can extend the timeframe of a divorce and make it more costly, especially when parents disagree. This can also occur in cases where the safety and welfare of children may be affected by allegations of child abuse, domestic violence, substance abuse, or other potentially harmful situations. In some cases, an independent Attorney Representing Children (ARC) or Guardian Ad Litem may be assigned to the case to help the judge understand what is in a child’s best interests.
"O'Connor Family Law and specifically Lydia Field were amazing throughout my entire divorce process. Lydia was so knowledgeable, responsive, and helpful as we worked through the mountains of paperwork."- Sarah M.
"I am so happy with the services Attorney Khan provided, she came in at the last minute after a previous attorney did not fulfil his duties and she found errors he had made, worked all weekend on a rush to finalize my divorce."- Courtney O.
"LaKeshia Parker Smalls and her team were so wonderful throughout my divorce process. I spoke with a few other lawyers before hiring her who made me feel like a burden with all the questions I needed answers to."- Jessica C.
"Sasha Khan worked with me for 10 months on a child custody modification. She had a difficult case with the opposing party, but was very professional and driven to defend me and give advice through a very difficult time in my life."- Shannon W.
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